Sunday, July 17, 2011

What do I want????

What do I want?


Have you ever asked this question to yourself??? Most of us did asked this question in several occasions. Do we really know what we want???!!! A mysterious question right?


Rewind your life, remember the occasions when you asked this question to yourself... Most of us immediately answer HAPPINESS right? Think little more specific. When I rewind my life, most of my wishes were circled around money, fame, power,love and pride! Also my expectations were different in different phases of my life.


Its one of the oldest and yet hottest topic in the field of psychology. The need of people varies from generation to generation! The form of needs keep on changing, but the base remains the same! 


Everyone think if their wish is fulfilled that is the ultimate. But the answer is NO!! This is why in olden days psychologists compared human's mind to Monkey. When one wish is fulfilled the other one arises!


Now the next question comes to mind is "Is it healthy to have wishes??" The answer is YES and NO!! It all depends on what you believe and how you see things! Let us do a reverse analysis and let's go with the majority.  Mostly people want happiness and secured life. Look at your surroundings and analyze, who is really happy and secured???? ..... Unarguably it's CHILDREN (~0 to 3). Now think why are they always happy and secured ??? .......


Now do you know WHAT YOU WANT???