Sunday, March 17, 2013

How to select your Life Partner????

     It's been a long time I penned down something in my blog. I got too busy after my engagement and wedding. Life has become much more beautiful after the arrival of my wife. A small piece of advice to all the bachelors out there; get married! Also be very careful when selecting your life partner; be patient and look around until you find the one. Believe me it took several years for me to find out my better half in this whole world!

     There are couple of factors that you should take into consideration. Everyone has their own expectations; sometimes it might be very funny. First be sure about your top prioritized expectations from your life partner. List them out, sometimes you might need to consider the expectations from your parents too. Just list them all.

     It is not an easy task to come up with this list. I strongly believe marriage is something that is very very important in the life and that is forever. Let me give you some tips on developing this list. When I started preparing   my list, initially it was unrealistic! Do you know why? The first priority was the looks, was expecting someone like a Barbie Doll; second, it comes the status, someone like Bill Gate's daughter and the third expectation was the professional status. But the fact is you cannot expect someone with all these qualities, so think realistic. This is very important, because once you are married both will be having 100% stake on each others life. The truth is the chemistry and compatibility are something which are way beyond beauty, richness and professional status. These can only help in the very beginning to get a comfort level with each other! When life progresses it is all about three most important things, which are LOVE, LOVE and LOVE!

     My recommendation is to have a realistic expectations. Before making wedding decisions, make sure you and your partner should feel 100% compatible with each other. In my case it was arranged come love, my cousin who is a professor found my angel. Then it was the facebook:), which helped us to exchange our expectations, interests and thoughts. We realized both match each others expectations to a great extend. Then, we met and felt for each other! That moment was amazing, it is still in my heart and that moment will always be! That was the time we both realized we are born for each other... Go ahead, list your expectations and find your life partner! Life is short, live it to the fullest!